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The Idle man will find a job

The idle man is not lazy; he is occupied. He searches, he waits, he knows exactly who he is. But knowing and doing are two very different jobs. Which one are you working?

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Young Ghanaian person sitting thoughtfully, representing self-discipline, personal growth, and doing hard things.

Do Hard Things – Yere Wo Ho

In Ghana, we say ‘yere wo ho’- gather yourself. But beyond the phrase lies a deeper truth: growth demands discipline, discomfort, and the courage to face yourself.

Grey or Something Close

I slipped into 2021 frail.For lack of a better phrase: grey, or something close. Like they say, we don’t look…

Moving Out

Broke, determined and ambitious. How does it work? “Broke” is even an understatement for the state I was in when…

Note To Self

Born an uncertain foetus.Before sprouting your wings,fully transforming into human-being.You were meant to be.You lived. You’re living.But how much of…

Will My Mistakes Follow Me?

Will you walk out the door, trace the steps of my soul, disregard my privacy, and burst out in the…

I am feminine

My attributes distinguish me from the other species — male. My biological makeup carries a roadmap toward a directive destination.…

When I say “I do”

I hope I say “I do” when I truly mean it. I hope the words come out not out of…

The Idle man will find a job

The idle man is not lazy; he is occupied. He searches, he waits, he knows exactly who he is. But knowing and doing are two very different jobs. Which one are you working?

A Poem I wish he wrote me

Woman,A mystery to manBut you, an open book and even better,A mystery to my thirsty soul For my heart aches…

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